"Surely we are not sufficiently sensible of the infinite tenderness of Jesus!" Spurgeon. Psalm 62: 8 Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us. "When grief presses you to the dust, worship there, 'pour out your heart before Him. God is a refuge for us.' This sweetens sorrow and takes away it's sting." Spurgeon.
I thought you may be interested in this book, "Ministries of Mercy" by Tim Keller! Keller's earlier sermons are very conservative, and most excellent - not sure where he is these days. He is the pastor of redeemer presby, New York. Anyway, this book looked like a worthwhile/interesting read.
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