Friday, May 14, 2010

11 tips about life, by Bill Gates

I saw this up in the doctor's room today and had to chuckle!

Bill Gates: 11 things they don’t teach in school

Rule 1: Life is not fair…get used to it.

Rule 2: The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3: You will NOT make $40,000/year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice-president with a cell-phone, until you earn both.

Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. He
doesn’t have tenure.

Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a word for flipping burgers-they called it opportunity.

Rule 6: If you mess up it’s not your parents fault, so don’t whine about
your mistakes, learn from them.

Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are
now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes, and
listening to how cool you are. So before you save the rain forest from the
parasites of your parents’ generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.

Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life
hasn’t. In some schools they have abolished failing grades and they’ll give
you as many times as you want to get the answer right. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers and
Christmas break off, and very few employers are interested in helping you
find yourself. Do that on you own time.

Rule 10. Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to
leave the coffee shop and go to work.

Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Mother's Day



My mother, Granny K, who now lives 2 streets away now.

The kids and I on a Sunday School picnic just over a year ago.

This Mother's Day more than ever and with trembling, was I struck with the awesome, heaven sent privilege it is to have precious children and to be able to nurture them, love them and be close to them. To have a mother too who is a wonderful Granny to my children is an awesome privilege. (How I wish Doug's mother was close to us too, to be more involved with the children. I will always miss her and my grandmother, Ouma-grootjies, as the oceans part us....these are everyday family gifts that have been stolen from us, by 'Immigration'.)

Each Mother's Day before I think I have taken the privilege of mothering for granted!

Not so this year and I pray never again ....


I was thoughtful of mother's who were ill themselves and who could not show their love to their children as they wanted to. For those who fear they will not be there next Mother's Day to enjoy and bless their children.


My thoughts turned to mother's whose children were in hospital, or separated for reasons beyond any mother's control...how their hearts ache to reach those children, to make their child's pain go away!


I was mindful of mother's who mother children with special needs; these mother's whose hearts ache with love way beyond the 'normal' love for children as they serve those special children without the usual rewards, blessings, comforts and praises.


I have thought too of the mother's who feel as if they have failed as mothers, who wish they had done it all better and differently but who now face, "too late" .

And I have pondered on the feelings faced of those mother's who have faced the death or near death of a child.


"Oh, my God, may we never take for granted the the privilege of parenting! May we enjoy every precious moment we have with our dear children! May we love as we have never loved before, these precious gifts!
"

Thank God for these beautiful souls brought into our lives to love and adore with all our hearts through all of their lives.








Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Grace Gem's Today: Go to Him just as you are--and receive from Him all you need!

I can truely testify to God's goodness this last week, as He has brought us through our hardest trial ever, please continue to remember us! Here is the Grace Gem devotional that I came home to read after a very, very long day!


(James Smith, "The Pastor's Morning Visit")

"Come unto Me." Matthew 11:28

Jesus calls you to His throne of grace. He is there waiting to hear, relieve and bless you. You are to go to Him just as you are--and receive from Him all you need.

He will give you:
wisdom--to direct your steps;
peace--to keep your hearts;
strength--to do His will;
righteousness--to justify your souls;
and rest--unspeakably sweet.

He is glorified in bestowing these blessings upon you. He calls you this morning, this moment--to receive all you need--without money and without price. What a precious Savior is Jesus! What a kind and tender Friend!

"Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need." Hebrews 4:16

"Come!" He says, "Come to Me! Do not go to SELF, to the world, to the empty cisterns which creatures idolize; but come unto Me, and I will do immeasurably more than all you can ask or imagine!
Your sins--I will pardon;
your graces--I will revive;
your comforts--I will restore;
your holiness--I will increase;
your efforts to glorify Me--I will crown with success;
I will bless you--and you shall be a blessing!"

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We have posted Samuel Davies insightful sermon, "The Success of the Ministry of the Gospel, Owing to a Divine Influence


Grace Gems (choice ELECTRONIC books, sermons & quotes)

Grace Audio Treasures (choice AUDIO sermons)

Sovereign Grace Treasures (choice PRINTED books)

Monday, May 3, 2010

Grace Gems devotional for today: Do not be anxious

He cannot love you more!

(James Smith, "The Pastor's Morning Visit")

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." Philippians 4:6

The Lord cares for His children!

He knows our needs--and has promised to supply them.
He knows our foes--and will deliver us from them.
He knows our fears--and will make us ashamed of them.

All creatures and things are in His hand, and at His disposal; all circumstances are under His absolute control. He . . .
directs the angel,
feeds the sparrow,
curbs the devil, and
manages the tempest!

He is your Father--and His love to you is infinite. You are His delight--His dear child. Will He neglect you? Impossible! Cast then your cares upon Him. Tell out all your desires, fears, and troubles to Him; let Him know everything; keep nothing back. And then in the confidence of faith, expect Him to fulfill His Word, and act a Parent's part.

Bless Him for all He has given, for all He has promised. Plead with Him for all you may need. But never for one moment, or under any circumstances, distrust Him! He cannot love you more! He is your ever present help. He will rejoice over you to do you good, with His whole heart, and with His whole soul.

"Cast all your care upon Him, because He cares about you!" 1 Peter 5:7

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We have posted Grace Gems for APRIL in one file!


Grace Gems (choice ELECTRONIC books, sermons & quotes)

Grace Audio Treasures (choice AUDIO sermons)

Sovereign Grace Treasures (choice PRINTED books)

Mother Hen Close...

How good to know that nothing can take us away from the love of our God, that He nestles his children close like a mother hen with chicks beneath her wings.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Easter Fest 2010: So what was so wrong about it?

Many people have asked recently why we did not encourage our children to go to Easter Fest. Why, we have been asked? It is not that difficult to figure out why, in the light of these Bible verses and the Easter Fest related links that follow below:

Bible Verses:

(1) Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What accord has Christ with Belial? … Therefore go out from their midst, and be separate from them, says the Lord, and touch no unclean thing … Since we have these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from every defilement of body and spirit, bringing holiness to completion in the fear of God 2 Cor 6

(2) Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind … Rom 12 ?

(3) Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about THESE things. Phil 4

(4) Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea. (Mark 9)
(5) Abstain from every form of evil. Thess 5 6.
(6) But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. Eph 5.


Easter Fest Links:

(1) Here is the Easter Fest 2010 main page of artists! http://www.easterfest.com.au/programme/artists/


(2) Here is a newspaper article which has some interesting public coments below it! http://www.thechronicle.com.au/story/2010/03/30/easterfest-sex-violence-christian-movie-rrated/

(3) Here is some research my husband did:

ASSOCIATIONS OF EASTERFEST BANDS (Note that small computer speakers will not do justice at all to the impact of the low frequency content. If you computer speakers include small woofer, this will give a better rendition.)

To view, cut and paste these links into your browser. The bands listed below are all being featured this year:

http://www.easterfest.com.au/programme/artists/ (this is the Easterfest page) See ‘Headline’ and ‘Artisits A-Z’ tabs

Hawk Nelson band. The link below mocks the elderly, including sexual flirting by a young lad mockingly directed at an elderly woman, and jibes at their incontinence.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ASY3aZ2pn6A

Some Easterfest bands claim to be Thrash Metal /Death Metal which is in the category of "doom" music. The bands "Grave Forsaken; Disciple; Prepared like a Bride; As I lay Dying are in this category.

http://www.asilaydying.com/

http://www.youtube.com/user/preparedlikeabride#p/a/u/0/4fJ1anzvvsY (Prepared like a bride)

http://www.argo.net.au/vgregory/graveforsaken/home.html (GraveForsaken)

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=33730623 (Disciple)

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=38992807 (Ivoryline)

And the wordless(?) shrieking in this one is no different in form to the demonic shrieking of secular Satanic rock:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbaiyhkiHVI (As I lay Dying)

By the same band:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOoTibcd__g


Here is a google search on from where these Easterfest bands take their lead:

Video Results: Heavy Metal satanic influences Warning: graphic imagery and some foul language

Click the top result to hear musicians talking about their own music.

Click the second video clip and listen to the music..

There is no difference between this and the Easterfest so-called “Christian” metal bands below. Look for where the latter get their influences ………………

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A.

“Christian” band: Stand or Fall

Stand or Fall

http://www.myspace.com/standorfallspiritfilled

About STAND OR FALL(NEW SONGS NEW PASSION NEW FERVOUR N)

STAND OR FALL is a spirit filled hardcore punk band from the Sunshine coast. Formed with some of the ex members of NOT OF THIS in late 2006. Committed to the Christian and hardcore ideals of equality and acceptance, Stand or Fall are dedicated to bringing fun and positivity but also conviction and integrity back into hardcore. They achieve this with optimistic and straightforward lyrics based on biblical principles and by mastering the stage with three frontmen.

Drawing influences from bands such as No Innocent Victim (demonic singing style!), The Deal and Madball and H2O, the seven-piece band are unashamed about their beliefs and convictions.

Italics mine.

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B.

Easterfest “Christian” band

As I lay Dying: http://asilaydying.com/

Click on Videos on their website and watch any video to get an idea of what this band does. Note the skull images on the website.

e.g. from their website:

“How can you be a Christian band and go on tour with bands who represent themselves as evil, satan worshipers?

We hope to intelligently represent a faith that has been very misrepresented in the entertainment industry. There isn’t much diversity of thought within metal music and I believe it is important for people to understand opposing views before drawing conclusions. I hope other bands and their fans have an open mind and respect for what we are saying, so it’s fair for them to expect the same from us. If truth is the basis of our belief, then the questions other bands/fans have are an important way to understanding what/why we believe. Most of the bands we tour with would never hear a well represented explanation of Christianity if we just stayed home.

Who are your musical influences?

Everyone in the band listens to totally different stuff. Anywhere from Disney tunes to brutal grinding metal. I’d say the few bands we all agree on in the classic metal genre. For one, Iron Maiden introduced a unique style of guitar melody. Bands like Living Sacrifice are less “classic” but I can safely say that we’ve all been influenced by their brutally mechanic sense of rhythm.

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C.

http://www.argo.net.au/vgregory/graveforsaken/home.html

Easterfest “Christian” band: Grave Forsaken

Grave Forsaken

Lead singer:

NAME: Tim Steadman

DOB: 28/07/1979

FAVOURITE BANDS: Mortification, Deliverance, Tourniquet, Living Sacrifice, Extol, Metallica, Nirvana, AC/DC

CHURCH: Newstart Bible Ministries

Guitarist:

NAME: Vaughan Alan Edward Gregory

DOB: 29/7/1978

FAVOURITE BANDS: Mortification, Tourniquet, Vengeance Rising, Deliverance, Stryper, Bride, Saint, Disciple, Paramaecium, Iron Maiden, Judas Priest, Motorhead, black sabbath Megadeth, Kiss, Alice Cooper, Antestor, Immortal Souls, Iced Earth

CHURCH: East Fremantle Baptist Church

NAME: Elias Salmela

DOB: 15/12/1977

FAVOURITE BANDS: Tourniquet, Immortal Souls, Mortification, Paramaecium, Deliverence, Antestor, Megadeth

CHURCH: All Saints Anglican

NAME: Matt Skipworth

DOB: May- best month of the year!

MARITAL STATUS: single...

FAVOURITE BANDS: Mortification, Blind Guardian, Saviour Machine, Deliverance, Dream Theater, Tourniquet, Megadeth, Within Temptation, Nightwish, Killswitch Engage, As I Lay Dying, Coheed and cambria, Foo Fighters, Iron Maiden.

NAME: Dave Kilgallon

DOB: 23-06-1983

CHURCH: Riverview North

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D.

http://www.myspace.com/ivoryline

Ivoryline

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E.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disciple_%28band%29

Disciple

(Metalcore) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metalcore

Video Results

http://video.google.com.au/videosearch?hl=en&client=firefox-a&hs=LzX&rls=org.mozilla:en-GB:official&channel=s&q=disciple+band&oq=&gs_rfai=&um=1&ie=UTF-8&ei=ZZCfS5imA4LmswP06O3ZCw&sa=X&oi=video_result_group&ct=title&resnum=15&ved=0CEEQqwQwDg#

(4) And here are a few quotes I would like to add which are taken from, As I Lay Dying's 'christian' web site. In themselves not too offensive, but with a lack of Christian content one wonders where they truely are at:

"Where/who does your tattoos?
Some of my tattoos are old and you wouldn’t care to know. Now I go to 454 Tattoo in Encinitas, CA (Brad Schneider). Some of my older work that I really like was done at Ace Tattoo in Ocean Beach, CA (Steve Smith)."

"I am trying to form a band but I’m haunted by stage fright. Do you have any advice for me?
Try moving around so much that you’re never still enough to feel stupid."

"Do you play Halo2 on X Box live?
Phil does."

"Why do you wear your shirts inside out?
Sometimes I get free shirts but the logo is really poorly done. I don”t want to waste the whole shirt."


"How can I learn how to scream like Tim? Does Tim use any kind of vocal effects pedal?
Everyone’s voice sounds best when they find the strong point of their range. Most of the guys I respect and look up to sound totally different from me and they are usually much quieter than me when it comes to a recording/live situation. I’m not sure why that is. I’ve learned to use my diaphragm and not lungs to breath, which also helps me make sure I’m not using my throat. As long as you aren’t going to hurt yourself, I would just say go let loose and go all out. I don’t use vocal effects or distortion but on a recording you might need some reverb to give the same feeling a big open venue might naturally have."


And that is more than I can manage comfortably. I feel quite embarrassed for any good guys that might have been at Easter Fest this year. I recon by next year they will have it figured things out and so be free of guilt by assosiation.

I hope you now understand why we did not encourage our children to go to Easter Fest this year with their peers.